Today I took the boys to a Valentine's Day party at a lady's house that is in my MOMS Club. I had never been to her house before and I loved it. The floor plan was perfect, it was wonderfully decorated and everything seemed to have its place. It was almost enough to make me abandon all my attempts to save money and go out and buy neat things for my house, or at least get sad that spending on our house isn't really part of our current plan. Instead, I tried to focus on how I could improve my house without spending every last penny of that tax refund that should be in my bank account any day now.
I loved how everything had a place, so I thought of the areas in my house where everything doesn't have a place. That would be the computer desk. I really need to try and keep it cleared off and designate a place for everything (and not forget that the trash can is always an option). And as I was working on that tonight, I realized everything pretty much does have a place, I just rarely put it there.
Her kitchen was amazing, there was so much counter space! So, how can I create some more space? I'm going to try and move the microwave. It's currently right by the stove, and I often find myself wishing I had more space right there. So I'll move it to another spot and see if that helps.
She clearly had some kid free zones. She has twin boys (who are 18 months old) and used gates to keep them in the play areas. At first I thought maybe this was just to keep all the kids in one spot while she had company, but then I noticed a low bookshelf full of books in one of the kid-free areas. From what I know about these little boys, there's no way they'd keep them there if they were allowed to play in that room. Awhile ago, I started a rule about no toys in the living room. It works as long as I enforce it and I've become quite lax about that.
So to summarize, in lieu of buying out Target and ordering a bunch of new furniture, I'll work with what I've got - a fabulous house - and keep my computer desk organized and clean, move my microwave to create an illusion of more counter space and enforce the no toys in the living room rule so I can have a neat front room to make a great first impression to others and myself. I know these things will help me feel better about my house and curb my case of House Envy.
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Monday, February 11, 2008
House Envy
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4 comments:
Cool post. I have the similar feelings when I visit a family friends place. Its about 3 times as big as ours and the living area is always up-to-date.
I always come back brainstorming on how to create some more space in our tiny apartment.
I think it's awesome that you can see those things and instead of letting it drive you to spend, it drives you to be more creative with what you have - which is really what healthy personal finance is all about. I don't have much counter space and my microwave took up a chunk of it and it drove me crazy. I finally got a cart for it with storage underneath and that made a huge difference. I have space for the microwave and for other stuff like pots and pans and bowls underneath. And don't forget - she probably had her house all perfect for you being there and it's not always that way. AND - it always makes me feel better when I go to immaculate houses but then the hostess goes on and on about debt they're in. Um...I'll take my small house with not much counter space, thanks :) Goof luck with your little projects to make the most of the great house you have!
Alison,
I really appreciate your perspective on this. Good for you for making do with what you have--and making it even better!
I am so much happier since I moved my microwave out of my way. I did not realize just how annoying it had been until it was gone. Congratualations on not giving in and being driven to go out and buy some organizing goodies.
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